White Dads, Black Dads: Same Role, Different Stories

A few years ago when this picture hit the internet, everyone who logged on collectively ooh’d, ahhh’d and swooned.   Most of us didn’t feel all soft and fuzzy simply because of an image of a daddy combing a daughter’s hair. For many, the hormonal surge of happy-place emotions was amplified because it was a White dad combing his Black daughter’s natural hair. This … [Read more...]

Coming Soon to an E-Reader Near You!

Looking Back While Preparing for the Future Personally, 2013 was a really powerful year. In addition to welcoming our daughter into the world, our son started first grade and my family took some serious steps towards creating the reality that we want to have. Producing this website and publishing my first book, Afro State of Mind: Memories of a Nappy Headed Black Girl, … [Read more...]

Black Girls Rock! #Unapologetically.

This weekend was full of win. FULL. OF. WIN! First we have a fantastic turn out at the “Raising Confident Kinky/Coily/Curly Haired Kids” event. One thing is true—our community is full of parents and educators who are very much concerned about the welfare of Black children. It was an honor to share the stage with Ama Karikari-Yawson as she read her new children’s book Sunne’s … [Read more...]

Raising Confident Kinky, Coily and Curly-Haired Kids

Raising confident kids is hard under most circumstances. As Black parents, the challenges associated with instilling confidence and a sense of pride into our children can be even more complicated. Especially when it comes to their hair and skin color. Believe me when I say, it’s hard out there for the parents of a Black child especially when you consider the impact of the … [Read more...]

Your Son is a Real N-Word. This is NOT Pretty Hair…

Sunne's Gift When Ama Karikari-Yawson heard the barber say that her son was a real “n-word” who did not have “pretty hair” she was sickened by the experience. Like many mom’s Yawson took her son Jojo to the barbershop for a quick cut.  Previously, the barber had always shaved Jojo’s hair into a baldie.  But this time Yawson asked that he only give her son a low cut as she … [Read more...]