Archives for July 2013

Fruitvale Station: Yearning for a Different Ending

“It’s easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.” Frederick Douglass   When my husband and I went to see Fruitvale Station I made sure to bring tissue. Not because I cry easily but because every one of our friends who’d seen it advised that there was not a dry eye in the theaters where they saw the highly acclaimed film. There’s no doubt that the movie … [Read more...]

Professional Naturals Project: Cyrene Gerard

Welcome to the first edition of the Professional Naturals Project!  The goal of this project is to 1. Promote the beautiful diversity of professional natural hairstyles, 2. Create an image gallery so that other naturals can get ideas of how they can wear their hair in the work place, 3. Provide encouragement for women who desire to be their naturally beautiful selves, … [Read more...]

My Hair vs. My Lover

It’s a sad secret in the natural hair community. Sometimes you want to go natural but you’re not sure how the love of your life will take it.  If you are like many women considering how to transition from chemically straightened hair to a natural hair style—your love interest’s potential reaction can be a big factor. We have to be honest about the fact that “going natural” … [Read more...]

Should I Interview With Natural Hair?

The question of whether or not one should interview while wearing natural hair is a serious one. After all, if your future boss is a nappy-hair hater with posters on the wall extolling the virtues of straightening one’s kinky roots then walking in with an Angela Davis Afro for your call back could be detrimental—to say the least. However, the issue is never as black and … [Read more...]

Ready to Relax, Relate, Release?

If you attended last year’s Relax, Relate, Release Women’s Empowerment Conference then you know you are in for a treat.  This annual Brooklyn event is a dynamic gathering of women coming together to learn, support and grow from each other—all while having a blast at the same time. Event founder Lindsay Fauntleroy, an all around awesome sista with a powerful story (check out … [Read more...]